Richard: "Cheating was the worst mistake I ever made in my life. I don't know that we wouldn't have gotten a divorce, but I felt really bad that I cheated on my wife. I didn't really want a divorce. I didn't even really want to be with that woman; it's just that she was telling me what I needed to hear. I wasn't getting any attention from my wife at home. We hadn't slept together in about three months. I didn't understand what was going on in my wife's mind. I was just really confused. This other woman was giving me the attention I hadn't gotten in a long time. It all felt fine, until right after it happened. Then I just felt terrible."