"Not long ago we became acquainted with a husband and wife who frequently open their home for short- and long-term hospitality. They've housed children of missionaries as well as people released from psychiatric hospitals. One man stayed with them for nearly two years. 'It has caused certain difficulties,' the husband admits, 'but there's also tremendous joy in it.'

What's the effect on their four kids? Do they feel neglected or put out? Their oldest daughter says, 'I think I've really learned a lot from the people who have lived with us. I think I've learned love and acceptance and care.

'I can remember one time when Randy and I were little. It was late at night, and we heard this pounding on the door, and we went to the top of the steps. There was a woman there, and tears were just running down her face. As we were sitting at the top of the stairs, I saw Mom open the door and let this woman in. She put her arms around her. I guess this woman's husband had just left her, and she was hysterical.

'And as a child,' she says, 'I saw Christ's love. I think I've learned through Mom and Dad just to love, accept, and care for people.' "