In her book, A Place of Healing, author Joni Eareckson Tada reflects on "normal": "Relief from chronic pain—even though I remain paralyzed—would be blissfully, peacefully, joyously 'normal' for me these days … and all I could ask for. I don't remember where I saw the following Mary Jane Iron quote, but it comes pretty close to my take on 'normal':

Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are … Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in my pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.

Joni continues, "That's my take on normal. Come to think of it, I'm not even a 'normal' quad. I have now exceeded the expected lifespan of a person with my level of injury and paralysis. The bare, unadorned fact is this: Many people in my condition simply don't live as long as I have lived. So my thoughts haven't been so much on picking up the old life on my feet I left behind in 1967, as much as stepping into the new life and body that await me."