Sermon Illustrations
Research Shows Youth Need Three Key Relationships
What factors help Christian youth maintain their faith into adulthood? A major research project called the National Study of Youth and Religion found the following three factors:
- The young person's parents practiced the faith in the home and in daily life, not just in public-church settings.
- The young person had at least one significant adult mentor or friend, other than parents, who practiced the faith seriously.
- The young person had at least one significant spiritual experience before the age of 17.
In other words, teenagers are most likely to retain their Christian faith into adulthood if they have had a meaningful and healthy relationship with their parents, a faithful Christian mentor outside of the family, and with God himself.
In conclusion, unless there is a specific adult in a teenager's life who shows the teenager by example and in the context of a meaningful, long-term relationship how an adult incorporates Christian faith into daily life, no program, camp, mission trip, youth group, worship style, musical trend, Sunday school, church reform, updated pastoral style, modernization, or even catechetical class will make a statistically significant difference. Further, to retain their faith into adulthood young people need to experience God's grace for themselves.